Families of the Fallen was first birthed from the personal tragedy of the loss of Susan VandePol's husband, a Los Angeles City Firefighter who died from duty related causes in 2005. As a result, this protocol was created and originally intended for use within fire departments and is now being used in that capacity across the United States and Canada.
Stated simply, the support protocol is a unique tool,
conceived from a widow's perspective, for giving assistance
to surviving families by assessing and meeting the unique
needs of those families.
This protocol has grown and been subsequently adapted for use within a church body, while remaining appropriate for any religious organization, alliance, association, business or company. Suggestions are included on how and when to initiate contact with the grieving family, time parameters within which to offer assistance, liaison definitions, communication logs to help liaisons in keeping track of the family’s needs, plus a few other reference logs that may be helpful.
"As a professional firefighter for over 25 years, as well as a clinical mental health counselor involved in working with firefighters and their families, I have found Susan Ortega's protocol for assisting the families of fallen firefighters a profound gift, born of heart breaking personal experience, to the entire fire service community. I consider the protocol to be an enormous resource that I will readily use if the need arises and encourage all fire departments to adopt and have, should tragedy strike. The time to attempt to find a way through to assist a family is not when a LODD occurs. This protocol is pre-planning at its best. It is a straightforward, easy-to-use template that is easily adaptable for local conditions. Thank you Susan for your contribution to the entire fire service family."
Don McCullough MS CMHC
Lieutenant, Rochester, NH Fire Dept.
Other endorsements include:
Michael Dahlberg, Captain
Minneapolis, Mn. Station 4,
E/4-L/4 B-shift Local 82
John Johnston, Captain
El Dorado Fire Department
Fellowship of Christian Firefighters Int'l
Chris Galbraith, Tacoma Fire Department Honor Guard and Pipes, Tacoma Professional Firefighters Local 31
David Loving, Vice President, Old Diminion Professional Firefighters Burn Foundation, Richmond Virginia
Matthew Scarrozzo, Past President, Middletown Professional Firefighters IAFF
International Police and Fire Chaplains Association
Les Ennis, Firefighter, Tampa Fire Rescue, Local 754, Honor Guard for 15 years
Lieutenant David D. Wilson, Wichita Fire Department, Local 135
"The loss of a loved one is a confusing and tumultuous time. We find ourselves lost and drifting in the wake of a life that was taken all too suddenly. The weight of the pain and uncertainty seem like a yoke which we may never be free from. I lost my brother in the line of duty, and found myself thrust into the heart of this confusion. I was overwhelmed, as were many of my brothers; we had so few answers to our own questions, let alone the queries our families brought to us. So I reached out to Susan and Families of the Fallen, hoping that she may have some guidance for myself, my family, and my department. Simply put I could not have found a better place to turn. I was immediately met with the compassion and empathy that only a survivor can express. My department and myself were seeking an experienced grief counselor to help our families navigate the unfamiliar waters we found ourselves in. Families of the Fallen became a beacon to help guide us safe ashore."
(Anthony Lyssiotis // Firefighter at City of Westland)